Often men find it very difficult to understand what an important woman in their life is thinking and doing. Additionally, if you even are a female yourself then you may not even be able to grasp why certain women are acting in the way that they are.
Women can be very complicated, and on average they are more emotional than a man, so they may give off different signals that, when analyzed together can be hard to contemplate. In this article, we are going to be helping you with exactly this subject of how to understand a woman.
Everyone Woman Is Different.
One of the keys to understanding women is that every woman is different which will result in a major contrast in the female logic from woman to woman. These differences will be down to many factors such as the upbringing of the girl such as how her parents treated her and taught her to behave.
Apart from that, the type of society that she has been exposed to, for example, girls from a more conservative society will likely act and think differently than girls from more liberal societies. Although this can also backfire, as every individual wants to explore the unknown.
This is why you are not able to apply the same rules and guidelines for every woman that you meet. Instead, your views and methodology should be adaptive.
Related to the topic above, women like the majority of people in the world will change throughout their life. We are not talking about physical change, but about their emotional intelligence as well as their personality. You will be able to notice this natural progression with the females that you have known for a long time and spend large amounts of time with.
A good example of this is that on average when women are younger they will be attracted to different aspects of a potential romantic partner. They will more likely care about looks and their social status than for other aspects such as their income and whether they want children of their own. The views of every female will change as her priorities as her needs and wants change. Therefore, not all women will follow this natural progression, but there will be some kind of change in her views and behavior over time.
Don't Blame Everything on Hormones.
A common mistake that many men make is to blame a woman's behavior on her hormones. It is true that women go through a lot of hormone-induced changes in their lives such as puberty and menstruation.
However, the view that women are overwhelmed by the higher level of hormones that they have is in fact not true. Both men and women have the same levels of hormones; however, they do have different levels of various hormones with women having higher levels of the estrogen hormone, for example.
Overcoming such a backward view will help you understand women, and see that there is a reason behind their actions. That may still be good or bad. Furthermore, blaming a woman's behavior on her hormones will only make things worse for whatever kind of relationship that you have with her as it will make you look uninformed and not a good person to be around.
There Is a Reason Why Appearance Is Important.
A major aspect to the question of how to understand a woman is the fact that women on average, value their looks much more than men. This is because as women develop femininity during their early teens the need for them to be pretty will constantly be enforced.
Men are mostly to blame for this. Studies show that men care much more about the appearance of their potential partner while women on the other hand are more interested in personality and other factors not associated with looks.
This is why there is a large chance that your girlfriend or wife may be feeling pressure around looking good which can lead her to feel unhappy and insecure. If you believe that this is the situation that you are finding yourself in then you should go out of your way in order to reassure her.
They Seek Romance.
Women, unlike men, are far less likely to seek out or be interested in a one-night stand or a non-serious relationship just for romance. Instead, females are much more interested in finding love. This is down to a few factors; one of those factors is society.
From a young age, women are bombarded with media such as music and films about a romance where a female protagonist will be seeking out her so-called prince charming. Moreover, in many societies around the world, there is still a stigma attached to the behavior of women that happen to be more adventurous and promiscuous.
If you are interested in a female just for romance, then you should keep that in mind. She will pretty quickly take note of your intentions and will likely end up rejecting you if she does not happen to be into no strings attached kind of relationships.
Seeking Third-Party Opinions.
A major factor behind the thought process of a female will be down to the advice that she happens to receive from her friends and family members that will most likely be female also. Women love to discuss their problems and general life with the other females that they happen to trust the most. As well as give each other advice that could be good but also not.
This is a major part of understanding women, as her opinion about you can quickly change if she happens to have a conversation about you with her best friends, and they have a strong opinion about you. At the end of the day, the female in question will be most likely to trust her best friends that she has known for many years rather than an individual that she is just getting to know.
Communicate With Her.
Above we have provided you with a number of useful pointers about how to understand a woman. However, rather than spending a countless amount of time analyzing a female which is ultimately the same as guessing. It will be much easier and quicker to simply speak to her to try and see if she will be willing to honestly share with you how she is thinking.
Having good communication is a long process, at the start; it will likely be awkward and difficult. However, you have to overcome this initial fear and just give it a go. You should remember that having good communication doesn't mean that you should force her into an interrogation session, but instead as a conversation between equals.